It has shown in almost every statistic that the best tool in raising your boy (children in general) is through a good moral, faithful and loving dad. Mothers have been raising children all by themselves for too long. It has shown over the last couple of decades how the loss of a good daddy in a boy will increase his chances to a struggling life. Its not a mothers job to raise her children alone (unless she has to). It's both parents job regardless if they are married, seperated or friends. As I have mentioned in my other blogs. The best gift for my children is showing them how much I love them and their mother through being there for them.
Being a father with only boys. I have found that a mother need to take a step back after the childs age of 2 or 3 for the daddy. Children are so smart at an early age. Daddy's need to step in as the primary caregiver when he see his son starting to become more deviant. Boys will respond to an active and loving daddy much quicker then he would his mother. Ofcourse, nothing can replace the love of a mother. However, a Dads love is priceless. If you don't believe me look up family statistics. Over 94% of black males and 75% of all males in jail were raised only by mom.
It's not mommies job to be the daddy in your boys life. Its time for men to be what God created them to be..... His Image!
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